Pravin Ghorpade

Relationships in lockdown After one week of the lockdown, I had read news that the rate of beating wife is increased dramatically. It is not the case with small family only but with in the joint family also. I know that any relationship requires a particular time to flourish. It is like giving water to a small plant regularly. If you miss to water the plant, it may die.           In this article I would like to focus on the other side of relationship. That is  being together always. Many scholars compare relationship with “holding a pigeon”. If you hold it too tight, it will die. Or if you hold it too loose, it will fly. Here in the lockdown situation, we are holding the bird of relationship too tight. The relationship is going to die soon.  I recall a story about a king who is in love with a beautiful dancer in his own court.        One day the king come to know that the beautiful dancer is in love with the singer in his court. The king would have ki

युही चांद चेहरे निखरता रहे , दुआ करते है खुबसुरत है आप और हमेशा रहे , दुआ करते है यु तो प्यार मिलता ही होगा सभीको  पर आपको सबको ज्यादा मिले , दुआ करते है न जाने कब सुरज ढला और न जाने कब दिन उगा होश नही रहता अब आपकी याद मे पता नही कब आपसे प्यार हुआ दिल से दिल कि बात करते है हर रोज आपसे मुलाकात का इंतजार करते है दिल मे बसाए बैठे है आपको आज अपने प्यार का इजहार करते है ढुंड रहा था दिल जिसे , वो मंझील तू है थक गया था मै , पर मेरा साहिल तू है सफर ये झिन्द्गी का होगा अब हसीन , जब मंझील तू , साहिल तू , हमराही तू है जिंदगी तो दो पल कि कहाणी है हमे वो आपके साथ बितानी है छोडना ना साथ हमारा कभी आपके सिवा तो सब विराणी है सांसे चलती है पर धडकने आप हो हम तो है मुसाफिर पर कश्ती तो आप हो रुठेंगे कभी हमसे तो तो मर जायेंगे हम क्योंकी जिंदा है हम पर जान तो आप हो ना जाने कब सुरज ढला ना जाने कब दिन उगा होश नही रेहता आपकी याद मे पता नही कब प्यार हुवा हर वक्त सताती है आपकी याद हमसे हम को चुरती है आपकी याद सास तो यु लेते है हम पर

I am feeling really awesome to share this with you. It is an incident which has happened in 2010. I was in Nashik, completing my B.Ed. It was near about 6 p:m. I was returning from my college. My room was 5 minutes away from the college. Actually it was a very big campus . KTHM, campus. From K.G. to P.G. courses are available there. I was crossing the main gate of one of the High-school building, at that time I noticed that somebody was crying. It was a school-boy. He might be in 5th or 6th class. The peon was closing the gates.As the boy was inside the gate, it was impossible to close it. So he took that boy out and closed the gate. I went near to Peon asked about the matter. Then he told me,  "sir, no one come to receive this boy's, and I have to go. I can't wait now, . Sir, please do me a favor please stay with the boy, until his parents come."     I had no choice. I agreed. The boy was crying continuously. I sooth him first. And started talking with him to make

                It was my friend who makes me think over this question. We were just wandering at airport. And talking about marriage he was not getting a girl in ‘His Caste’. I thought we get neighbours according to our financial condition, we get or become friends with those with whom we are comfortable, we get job according to our education. As we get our neighbours, friends and job according to our financial condition, comfort and education respectively. In the same way we get married with the person from our caste or religion. Now is this (caste or Religion) the only thing that makes ‘Jodies’ like ‘Rab Wali’. I think this must not be like this. Is this why we need the caste and religion for?   I know orthodox and dogmatist are going irritate by this question. But actually we really don’t need religion at all. I really mean it. I can think my life without religion. I have been thinking that if we eliminate castes and religions from the society or from India or say from our Indi

Yesterday was a sleepless night. Not because i was thinking of something or i had any bad dream. I was trying to sleep but the sound of beating drum disturbs me each time. It was Jagran-Gondhal’s program (praying god by singing songs for whole night) at our neighbour’s house that didn’t let me sleep. Our neighbour Mr. X (Identity should be hidden) is a Buddhist. I was thinking at first that Mr. X should not follow the custom of Jagran-Gondhal, because it is a Hindu’s custom and Mr.X is a Buddhist. How many people there who follows other religions’ rituals? I think mostly very few. These are two totally different things i.e. to participate in the ritual of the other religion and to follow or observe it by own. How many people observe the fast of Roja apart from Muslim brothers? How many people celebrate Christmas apart from Christians? How many people are there who don’t eat non-vegetables in Shravan apart from Hindu brothers?  As I have said above getting participate for the sake o

st st stammering Hi friends, Today, 22nd Oct, is International Stammering Awareness Day. I think you might know, ‘what is mean by Stammering, and who is a Stammerer’. For those who don’t know about it, stammering is speech disorder and stammerer is a person who has this disorder. Now you may think that are those people different from the normal people? How can anybody recognize them? How should anyone behave with them? These and some more questions may arise in your mind. But don’t worry you will get some direction from this article. First of all, it is to recognise a stammerer. All of have stage fear. Going in front of a group of members and put forth our idea is difficult task. At that time you might have the stammering. That is utterance of the sound …a.a…a or um…um… from the throat or repetition of words like; my..my..my..name is Pravin or sometime while uttering any word we face blocked or we becom e unable to utter that word. This is what we face rarely while g